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Contradiction is the fundamental truth of parenting. We want them to have self-esteem, but not pride. To master friendship, but thrive in solitude. To learn respect, but not blind obedience. To trust, but question.  Be comfortable in their skin, but not preening. Be healthy, but also indulgent. Be independent, but still a part of us.

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